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December 08, 2025

130. When death comes 

The American poet Mary Jane Oliver has always found inspiration in nature. She was influenced by Thoreau and Walt Whitman.

 

Her favourite pastime was a solitary walk in the wild. 

 

She once said: “When things are going well, you know, the walk does not get rapid or get anywhere: I finally just stop and write. That's a successful walk!”

 

Once when she found herself walking in the woods with no pen, she was deeply disappointed.

 

She narrated her feelings in a very painful way and later hid pencils in the trees so she would never be stuck like that again.


She has said in an interview that she often carried a 3-by-5-inch hand-sewn notebook for recording impressions and phrases.

 

I took her poetry seriously when a friend based in Iowa gifted her book “New and Selected Poems” to me with a note that she has been declared as the best-selling poet in the United States.

 

Following poem “When Death Comes” is from the same book.

 

When death comes 

like the hungry bear in autumn; 

when death comes and takes 

all the bright coins from his purse

 

to buy me, and snaps the purse shut; 

when death comes 

like the measles-pox;

 

when death comes 

like an iceberg 

between the shoulder blades,

 

I want to step through the door 

full of curiosity, wondering: 

what is it going to be 

like, that cottage of darkness?

 

And therefore, I look upon everything 

as a brotherhood and a sisterhood, 

and I look upon time as no more than an idea, 

and I consider eternity as another possibility,

 

and I think of each life 

as a flower, as common 

as a field daisy, 

and as singular,

 

and each name 

a comfortable music in the mouth, 

tending, as all music does, toward silence,

 

and each body a lion of courage, 

and something 

precious to the earth.

 

When it's over, I want to say: all my life 

I was a bride married to amazement. 

I was the bridegroom, 

taking the world into my arms.

 

When it's over, I don't want to wonder 

if I have made of my life 

something particular, and real.

I don't want to find myself 

sighing and frightened, 

or full of argument.

 

I don't want to end up 

simply having visited this world.