230. my Christmas gift to you and yours to me
In some parts of Ireland, January 6 has traditionally been a day when hardworking women pause their chores to gather, chat, knit, and enjoy Christmas cake, pudding, and other holiday leftovers. Today, the spirit of this day has been revived as a celebration of women’s solidarity.
Mamo McDonald is a poet well known for her collection Circling.
Although many women activists played supportive roles during the Irish revolutionary period, the Irish Republic established afterward proved quite unwelcoming toward women. Mamo McDonald was a notable figure in this revolution.
Successive Irish governments not only failed to fulfill the revolution's promises but also stripped away many rights women previously had.
I share one of her poems, "Passage to India," addressed to her husband, which opens with a reference to the couple’s financial hardship.
However, despite the leanness, husband and wife scrape together the price of an Indian rug, which they purchase from a well-known department store in Dublin.
That Christmas times were tough-
presents were taboo, we said,
and yet we gathered up
the price of an Indian carpet,
fifty-five pounds ten shillings
in Arnott’s, Henry Street,
and not a penny off for luck.
They lacked the country way
Of dealing.
But when the turkey and plum pud
were gone, the children
deep in Santy loot
all playing in the kitchen,
then you and I together
gave on its twelve by nine
of cream and green
and rosy glow perfection
my Christmas gift to you
and yours to me.